Trench on the NC gay marriage ban

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Yesterday Amendment One was passed by the voters of North Carolina. Essentially that means that same-sex marriages are scheduled to be officially banned by the state constitution. Because of that a lot of venom has been spewed at my state calling us inbred hicks, bigots, Bible beaters, etc. Once again being the grim spectre of truth that I am I’m going to tell you how it really is.

First off let me preface this by saying that I wholeheartedly support gay marriage and I’ll tell you why. It’s no secret that I’m an adoptee. I feel very strong about adoption. I would rather see a child adopted by a loving gay couple than end up in either a sketchy foster home or worse, as remains in a medical waste bag.

Now getting back to North Carolina. When the voters of California passed Prop 8 some years ago nobody called them inbred hicks.

Let me tell you some things about our ‘inbred’ state. The city of Charlotte is only 2nd to New York when it comes to financial business. Raleigh is only 2nd to Silicon Valley when it comes to the tech field. We have two of the best higher learning institutions in the country in Duke and UNC. We have an NHL team that has won the Stanley Cup. Not to mention that City of Asheville is probably the 2nd most gay friendly city in the country. And like I always say I saw more instance of bias crime living in New Jersey than I ever have in North Carolina.

What really got the amendment passed was not necessarily hate but logistics and apathy. Think about it for a minute. Do you what else was being voted on yesterday? It was the North Carolina Republican primary. So right there you know that the majority of voters are going to be from a party that have a history of not supporting same-sex rights.

There are a little more than 9 million people in North Carolina. From what I understand only 2 million people voted in yesterday. That’s only 22% of the populace and most of them were Republicans. Trying to get people to pry themselves away from their work and home lives in order to vote in a primary in this day and age would be a miracle. If the amendment was going to be voted on in November it would have had a much different outcome.

You know what they say about forgetting the past right? In California Prop 8 was ruled unconstitutional. So will Amendment One.

Gay marriage and crime

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With the overturning of Prop 8 in California it gives me a chance to address something that has bothering me for a long time.

First let me say that I have no issue with gay marriage. It’s not like that straight people have been a bastion of the sanctity of marriage for the past 50 years.

Anyway this is for the people who say that gay marriage will lead to acceptance of child molestation. To those people I say not only are you stupid you’re also blind.

The acceptance of child molestation has been gaining ground for years and has nothing to do with gay marriage. If you’ll notice on most of my sites I’ve been bitching about what light sentences that child molesters have been getting.

It’s not gay marriage that’s been causing the acceptance of child molestation but it’s with our judges and lawmakers who not only make the laws that allow child molesters to get off light but also let them back on the streets after offending.

So get your head out of your ass and if you really want to do something about child molesters write your government representatives for stiffer sentences for child molesters and not about letting a marriage happen that would have no effect on your life.